Avoiding Episiotomy During Childbirth (No Comments)

I coached as my wife was delivering our third child. She was at the final phase of delivery where the last few pushes would result in the birth of our second daughter. As the crown of our daughter’s head protruded slightly from the very end of the birth canal, my wife’s obstetrician yelled, “Stop! Don’t push…”

He quickly positioned a hypodermic needle and injected anesthetic into a section of my wife’s perineal tissue - the skin between the vagina and the anus. Next he grabbed a scalpel and carefully addressed the freshly anesthetized area. The attending nurse and I instinctively wheeled our heads to the side so that our eyes could not see what happened next. “I never watch this part,” she told me, as the doctor quickly performed a simple procedure known as an episiotomy. Our daughter was born minutes later. As mother and daughter were meeting face-to-face for the very first time, the doctor was busy stitching the incision created during the episiotomy.

The idea behind performing an episiotomy is twofold. The first reason is concern for the baby. Passing through the vaginal canal is the most stressful time for a baby experiencing a traditional vaginal birth. Cutting the perineal tissue creates a wider opening so that the baby can slip through more easily. The second reason is, in theory, to prevent out-of-control tearing of the mother’s perineal tissue. The idea is that, by making an incision, the area affected by cutting or tearing is controlled to a certain extent by the attending physician. The problem is that not all mothers experience tearing, so the laceration can be unnecessary.

According to an article by Salynn Boyles published on WebMD (http://my.webmd.com/content/article/110/109783.htm), The Journal of the American Medical Association (Vol. 293 No. 17, May 4, 2005) reports that researchers screened nearly 1,000 medical resources published in the past 60 years looking for data measuring the effectiveness of the procedure. Data from twenty-six articles contained relevant content and were aggregated to form conclusions.

The article reported that there was “fair to good” evidence that the results of routine episiotomy were not advantageous over the results of those with restrictive use of episiotomy. In cases where episiotomy was performed routinely, the severity of the laceration, the degree of pain suffered, and the amount of medication needed to treat was no better than for cases where episiotomy was not routinely performed.

Though most of the individuals were not followed late into life, relevant studies have shown no benefit from episiotomy for the prevention of urinary incontinence or pelvic floor muscle relaxation. Studies have also shown that “impaired sexual function - pain with intercourse - was more common among women” who had the procedure. A report published in the British Medical Journal in January of 2000 reported that women who received episiotomies during delivery had a significantly higher incidence of anal incontinence - the inability to control bowel movements and gas - than their counterparts who did not receive the procedure.

At best episiotomy is something no one wants to observe; at worst it can cause pain, lengthen the time it would normally take for a couple to resume sexual relations, and cause anal incontinence. The ideal situation would be to not only avoid episiotomy, but also to avoid tearing.

Informed mothers are learning more about this subject and taking the time to speak with their obstetricians about it, well in advance of their scheduled birthing date. They are adopting a strategy that includes special exercises using a device called EPI

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From There to Here with Dave the Dad (No Comments)

So there we were, rambling very nicely through out egocentric lives when we had a baby. Well, it won’t change much, we thought. Just means that we’ll have to stop swearing at home as much and occasionally shut the bathroom door.
This, we discovered, was wrong. The swearing, bizarrely, increased and we now find that not only do we forget to shut the door but that it’s a positive advantage as we usually have to emerge from the bathroom very, very quickly.

I was 36 when Tom was born and Jane was 34. Just.
She was pleased about this as it meant that she swept under the radar for ‘geriatric’ mothers, a label that apparently attaches ever so terrifyingly after the age of 35+. Not geriatric then, but not as young as others. There are problems with this, as indeed there are bonuses. I’m sure it will be a source of ever-increasing chagrin to Thomas, our son, as he grows up. Already there are generational warnings. I recall that I initially assumed The O.C. to be another reality TV show in the vein of Big Brother but with some poor bloke endlessly washing his hands. But I am as excited about the World Cup as younger fathers; I like The Simpsons and I still think it’s funny to fart in a lift. I’m just reminded of the old joke about Charlie Chaplin. Yes he was still having kids in his 80’s; he just couldn’t pick them up.

Thomas Finlay Fouracre was born at home, on the 12th September 2005. Jane missed her label by two days after going into full labour at six in the morning. Tom was out just after nine. This sounds pretty good but it could have been even better. The midwives who attended were sure that he was popping along fairly swiftly but then…nothing. Except the crying, screaming, panting and swearing of course.

Turns out he was an OP birth. This is a medical definition: ‘A baby is most commonly delivered in the occiput anterior position - head first facing the mother’s spine. When the foetus is in the occiput posterior (OP) position, facing away from the mother’s spine, labour can be prolonged.’
Yes. Prolonged. Quite. But it’s also (I realise that I am speaking at one remove here) a little painful. I’m paraphrasing here but in some births you might imagine you are attempting to divest yourself of an inconvenient watermelon. Now imagine it’s sideways. Of course babies in OP aren’t sideways, but Jane has always felt that Tom might as well have been. And wearing a full stormtrooper outfit. Certainly our friendship with Sam, a birth partner, has never fully recovered from the tirade of abuse Jane flung at her that morning. The upshot is that our lovely, wonderful boy, this bundle of fun and light that has entered our lives and taken them over so dramatically, was born on the toilet.

You see, it’s a bit cramped in OP and a toilet is specifically designed to separate certain anatomical parts. Well, it seemed the best idea on offer that morning. Jane astride, the midwives in front, two crouched runners under starter’s orders, Sam crouching in the bath stage right and me behind, perched on the shelf, straddling Jane’s upper body, like the imp in Henry Fuseli’s painting The Nightmare. A beautiful moment.

His head was misshapen -a common happenstance in OP births- but luckily we had a mother of two in Sam. ‘Eva’s head was like a cone for weeks!’ she relayed merrily and this eased our immediate worries. It took over a month before his head finally started to look less like the terraces of Angkor Wat but by then we had already started noticing other, odd features. Such as the fact that he was clearly the most gorgeous baby we’d ever seen. This might seem to be the standard subjective view of any new father and I understand completely when people try to explain to me how each parent believes that their child is the most stunning the world has ever seen. I nod, smile sheepishly and agree. But in my heart I know they’re wrong and I’m right. He’s gorgeous, unfeasibly so. I’m no-one’s idea of an oil painting, unless of course I just qualify under Fuseli’s rules, but Jane’s quite pretty. Still, Tom’s amazing.

He’s nine months old now and tearing through his milestones at a frantic rate. I keep telling him that he’ll use them up soon and won’t have any more to hit. Who’ll be sorry then? I ask. He usually laughs at this. But then he usually laughs when I ask him, for the fifth time, not to throw himself onto his belly as I’m changing him. He likes a good laugh. Yesterday he was lying at my side, squibbling around, as I lay shirtless on his bedroom floor, enjoying the heat of the afternoon. As he started to clamber onto my midriff I felt a warm paternal joy in his newly found ability to crawl forwards. Then he grabbed two meaty handfuls of my chest hair and hoisted himself onto my chest. I assume that he made it but can’t be totally sure as I think I may have passed out. However, somewhere, in the bowels of our terraced house I’m sure I heard Jane chortling, ‘Now imagine that while you’re also attempting to divest yourself of an inconvenient, sideways watermelon.’

Dave Fouracre aka “Dave the Dad” writes about his experiences as a Dad every week on http://www.thebabywebsite.com

Who is Dave the Dad?

My name is Dave and I have been married to Jane for a little over a year although we have been ‘going steady’ for more than a decade. If people ask, I tend to fluster about my work but when pushed, I admit I’m a teacher.

When they get over all the awful things that happened to them when they were in school I try to pretend I’m still an English teacher as this was my subject for ten years. Eventually, and with some reluctance, I occasionally tell them I’m now a Head of Media Studies. Jane is a Science teacher with a speciality in Physics. This normally helps to stop them laughing as most people still think that there is something preternaturally Godlike about anyone who understands even a small portion of the Universe. They are right.

We have lived in Brighton for seven years and belong to a Burmese cat called William whose grandfather was a great champion. William, however, discovered biscuits and subsequently strayed from the path somewhat. Our son Thomas Finlay Fouracre was born in September 2005.

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Beyond Layettes and Doctor Visits Pregnancy Preparedness (No Comments)

Pregnancy is a time of exciting change. Your body is changing and soon your family life will be joyously altered forever. Getting ready for a new baby is a busy time, but because there are so many things to prepare for, it’s easy to lose sight of some of the bigger issues you need to think about.

Get a Grip on Money

Pregnancy is one of the most expensive events in your life. Not only are you paying for medical costs, buying a new wardrobe for yourself, and purchasing all that baby equipment, but you’re also about to change the number of people in your family - something that has long-term financial consequences.

Parents need to prepare a pregnancy budget. Map out exactly what your pregnancy expenses are going to be so you can find a way to apportion those costs. Next, create a new parenthood budget. Include all of your household expenses, as well as all the costs a new baby is going to add. Compare it to the income you expect to have and also try to make a provision for some savings.

Trim the Edges

When you’re doing all this budgeting, it’s a great time to look for ways to cut back on certain expenses. Sign up now for free diaper and formula samples and coupons. Compare your health insurance plan with your partner’s to determine which offers the best family coverage. Consider opening a Flexible Spending Account (FSA) through your employer that will allow you to take money out of your paycheck pre-tax and spend it on medical expenses.

Plan for the Unexpected

Becoming a parent is a time of excitement, but it’s also a time of new responsibility. There are many things you can do while pregnant that will protect your family’s future. Contact an attorney and get a will made. Choose a guardian for your baby and make sure your will is very clear about your wishes. Your partner should consider purchasing life insurance, but it’s best for you to wait until after pregnancy to consider it for yourself since your premiums are likely to be higher if you apply during pregnancy.

Another thing many moms do not do is talk to their health care providers about C-sections. You’re probably planning on a vaginal birth and most likely you will have a happy, uneventful one. However, should you unexpectedly have a C-section, you may not have time to ask a lot of questions and gather a lot of information in advance. Ask about the type of incision that would be used, the type of anesthesia, and what the recovery period is like. You’ll also want to discuss who will be allowed in the operating room with you.

Get Your Home Ready

Getting the nursery together is an act of love and one you’ll enjoy doing. There’s more to getting your home ready than painting and setting up a crib though. This is a good time to have your home tested for environmental hazards such as radon, carbon monoxide, or lead paint. You’ll also want to learn about the safety standards for baby products, issued by the Juvenile Products Manufacturing Association (www.jpma.org), so that you can evaluate any secondhand baby equipment and check for recalls on products you might have received as gifts. You might also want to purchase a choke test cylinder, available at baby product stores, so that you can evaluate toys that might pose potential dangers.

Be a Busy Bee

The last couple of months of your pregnancy are a great time to get organized and do some things that will make your life easier once baby arrives. When you cook, double the recipes and freeze the extra. This will create a nice stockpile of frozen meals for when you come home from the hospital. Stock up on non-perishable pantry items that are easy to prepare as well. Lay in a supply of paper plates and cups so you won’t have to worry about dishes in those first hectic weeks.

Buy extra toilet paper, tissues, and self-care products. Get together a stack of take out menus and withdraw some cash so you won’t need to get to an ATM. Practice turning off the ringer on your phone and turning down the volume on your answering machine now.

This is also a great time to download free or low cost labor software for your partner’s Palm Pilot that will track your contractions. You may also want to set up a basic web page where you can upload baby photos once you get home from the hospital, so friends and family from everywhere can see the new arrival.

Consider Your Options

Think now about cord blood preservation and additional newborn testing. Cord blood preservation must be planned in advance, so you can pay the fee and receive the collection kit to take to the hospital. If you wait to decide until you go into labor, it’s too late. You should also research what newborn medical tests are required in your state to be done in the hospital and decide for yourself if you feel they are adequate. Some states screen for only four conditions, while others screen for up to 48. For information on how you can get complete testing done for under $100, visit www.SaveBabies.org.

Getting ready for a new baby can be stress-free if you take the time now to plan ahead.

Brette McWhorter Sember is a former attorney, mom of two and author of Your Practical Pregnancy Planner: Everything You Need to Know About the Financial and Legal Aspects of Preparing for Your New Baby (McGraw-Hill, 2005) and Your Plus-Size Pregnancy: The Ultimate Guide for the Full-Figured Expectant Mom (Barricade Books, 2005). Her web sites are http://www.BretteSember.com and http://www.YourPlusSizePregnancy.com.

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